for the women who know there has to be more
we need who you're becoming
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we need who you're becoming -
this is KIN
i am here to help you make sense of who you’re becoming.
no matter the season - a career that no longer fits, a relationship that's shifting, an identity that's quietly shedding, an age you didn't expect to feel this tender - they're all asking the same question.
who am i, really?
KIN is built on the belief that the answer lives in you. not in another framework, another plan, another person telling you what to do. the work here is radical self-leadership - taking full ownership of your life, your patterns, your choices, and what you're available for going forward.
this is for the woman who is ready to feel vital again. to feel like herself again. to stop moving through her days on autopilot and start actually inhabiting them. to flirt with her own life a little. to be so full of her own essence that there's no room left for anything that isn't hers.
it really is all possible. want to meet her?
let’s work together
some seasons need deep intimate containers and others just need something to orient yourself to. whatever season you find yourself in - we’ve got you.
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RECLAIMING HER is my signature 1:1 coaching for when you can feel the next version of yourself forming and are ready to actually become her. i walk alongside you and permission you to unravel and reveal what's been there all along.
book a clarity call (3 months - $2500 or 6 months - $4750)
who this was built for:
you are ready to live freely in your own life - and you're tired of knowing that without actually feeling it
you crave a freedom and lightness you can't quite explain, and you've stopped trying to logic your way there
you are ready to pivot - your career, your relationships, your beliefs, your identity - and you want to do it from the inside out
you've been the capable one for so long that you've lost track of what you actually want
you've read the books, done the work, had the realizations - and something still hasn't moved
your outer life looks functional but your inner life is starving for something more true
you are ready to take radical responsibility and lead yourself into what comes next
what we actually do:
we start with your why - not as a productivity exercise, but as an act of reclamation. what is actually pulling you forward, underneath all the conditioning
we learn what your nervous system has been doing underneath everything - the patterns it developed to keep you safe - and we start to give it something new to orient around
we map the patterns and parts that have been quietly running your decisions - and we meet them with curiosity instead of shame
we bring in your Human Design and energetics here, once you have enough context for it to land so it becomes personal instead of theoretical, confirmation instead of concept
we practice the art of receiving - expecting what you've asked for, letting it land, staying open when it arrives
we build the devotion and discipline to hold what you call in, so the next version of you has somewhere to live
none of this stays in your head. it lands in your body, and that's what makes it stay
book a clarity call (3 months - $2500 or 6 months - $4750)
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ILLUMINATE is a 60-minute alignment session for when something in you needs clarity and your mind alone can't get you there.
book a session ($200)
who this was built for:
you're curious about somatics but you don't know where to start - you just know that thinking harder isn't working
you're standing at an edge right now - a decision, a conversation, a turning point - and you need someone to help you hear what your body is already saying
you want clarity quickly, but not the kind that skips over you - the kind that's specific to your wiring, your patterns, your moment
you've learned about your Human Design but it's still living in your head - you want to feel it, not just understand it
you don't need a long container, you need one precise conversation at exactly the right time
something is live in you right now and you don't want to wait until it passes to deal with it
what we do:
we follow what's present in the room - nothing is pre-scripted, nothing is generic
we use somatic awareness to slow the moment down enough that your body can tell you what your mind has been talking over
we bring your Human Design in as a living map, not a personality test - so the session confirms something you already sense about how you're built
we work with what's happening right now, in real time, so you leave with clarity you can actually move from
sometimes that looks like something settling. sometimes it looks like language finally clicking into place. either way, something lands.
book a session ($200)
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because the in-between season in life can be overwhelming as is - here are a few ways to start you on your journey.
check out our kin resources.
who this work is for
the woman in transition from love - she just left something that mattered, or she's stepping toward something new after years of going it alone. she's not just navigating a relationship. she's redefining who she is inside of one.
the woman questioning the ladder - laid off, promoted, or just quietly done with a path she worked hard to build. the uncertainty isn't the scary part. the scary part is that she's not sure she wants to go back.
the woman who's started over - new city, new chapter, holding loneliness and possibility in the same hand. she's braver than she feels and she knows it.
the woman whose friendships have quietly stopped fitting - she's not ungrateful. she's just hungry for something more real, more mutual, more alive.
the woman who has been holding it together for everyone else for so long she's forgotten what it feels like to be held herself.
the woman outgrowing her own story - the roles, the labels, the version of herself other people still expect. she can feel who she's becoming. she just needs somewhere to do it.
the woman finding her way back to her body - starting to listen instead of override. starting to trust what she feels over what she's been told to think.
the woman who knows something is ending before she has words for it - and is finally ready to follow what's calling instead of waiting for permission.
hi, i’m kari
a certified somatic coach and mentor who has spent fifteen years living inside the exact seasons i now help women navigate.
divorce in my late 20s. moving states with no job lined up. a deep spiritual unraveling that changed everything. a corporate career that took me around the world but stopped fitting somewhere along the way. a global promotion that looked right on paper. finding love again in my 40s. buying a home. getting laid off after buying that home. and then - building this.
none of it came with a how-to guide. what it came with was a body that kept telling me the truth even when i wasn't ready to listen, and reference points along the way that kept saying - keep going, you're right on time.
i can't live on the surface even when i try. it's just not how i'm wired. so instead i built a space that goes all the way down - into the body, the patterns, the stories that have been running the show, and the version of you that's been waiting underneath all of it.
i live in portland with my partner and norte, a bernese mountain dog who is truly too good for this world. i'm inspired by nature, deep conversation, women who refuse to stay small, and the kind of humor that only comes from having lived something real.
this work is my life's work. and i'm here to permission you into yours.